Friends are a form of relationship built on different types of love.
When man and woman joins in love and relationship, intimacy labors
throughout the arrangement, however in friendship a different type of
intimacy exists that makes the relationship work. Friendship, as
intimate relationships work with the exception that sex is not in the
arrangement in some instances. Some friends join in friendship and
later commit to sexual relations, thus leading to commitment or else
separation.
Friendships that are long lasting
usually have the ingredients to make the relationship work. Friends may
cause each other agitation, frustration, or unintentional harm down the
road in the relationship, yet the two will work together to make it
work by finding a resolve.
Friendship is a form of commitment
between two or more people, and often friends join in activities,
entertainment, and communication. True friends will prove true to the
end of the relationship. Friends will not interfere with each other’s
life, unless the friend sees the need to address an issue that is
causing the friend harm, or in the making of causing him/her harm.
True friends in love and relationships
will not hold back any punches when addressing issues with friends.
While the friend will not hold back any punches, he/she will use
consideration of the person’s feelings and emotions when addressing
issues. Friends have your back, which is a symbol of love displayed on
their part, and friends that endure throughout the trials and
tribulations of the relationship, show love since long-suffering and
self-control are visual.
Friends in love and relationship may
fight at times, but both parties will apologize for his/her part that
instigated the disagreement. Friends will tell you when you are wrong,
thus again not holding back any punches, while considering you.
Friends that develop into intimate
relationships, often work through the arrangement regardless of the
storms laid on their plates. Friendship before intimacy is smart, since
the two have an overview of the others behaviors, habits, personality,
skills, et cetera.
Love and relationships built on true
friendship will last through habits, behaviors, personality flaws, et
cetera, providing violence or repeated actions of inconsideration and
disrespect is ongoing.
When mates disrespect each other, or
show inconsideration ongoing, thus, the relationship will fail, since
friendship, love and elements that compose love are lacking.
Disrespect expands further than most
people think. Thus, learning beliefs, traditions, and standards is
smart when considering love and relationships. Thus, starting out as
friends will help you see through the person’s behaviors, habits and
personality, what makes him or her up as a person. The makeup of the
person will include an insight of standards, traditions, and beliefs.
Beliefs are tricky, since nowadays
standards are lower than ever, thus beliefs are often overlying
inconsistency and dishonesty. When a person has lack of evidence to
support their beliefs, thus faulty thinking is underlying the mind.
Beliefs are either concrete or
superficial. To convince me that a person is worth my time, the person
better have some realness in light. Thus, superficial beliefs rarely
stand firm, thus the person is obviously heading in the wrong
direction, and thus the relationship may or may not last.
As you can see, what determines the
outlook of friendship, love and relationships depends on the makeup of
the persons involved?
What about compatibility, where does it
play in friendship, love and relationships…
Compatibility by definition means to
exist together in agreement. When two people join in agreement the
relationship may or may not last, since down the road can you determine
if one person’s mind will change? People live life and gain experience
and wisdom along the path, thus a shallow minded person might stumble
upon information that changes his/her mind forever.
Thus, incompatibility according to
definition means to cause a disturbance by inconvenience and distress.
While the definition illustrates a failure down the road, many
relationships built on incompatibility proved enduring, since down the
road minds changed when facts were gathered leading to convictions.
Thus, conviction is devastating. When
you have truth, you have conviction, thus no one can argue with
you…therefore, relationships can last in friendship and in love and
relationships.